f i don’t really care abt looking masculine sometimes and i’m not rly a fan of a lot of masculine clothing on me personally compared to feminine fashion and i get that gender expression =/= gender id but i’m sooo tired of being misgendered and want to avoid ppl who say that “passing” as a dif gender is a privilege rather than erasure. if people didn’t assume or police gender i’d be so much fucking happier and comfortable wearing what i want and sharing it online bc i hate this shit